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प्रिय अव्यांश,

Letters to Avyaansh

Everything I'm learning — so my son never starts from zero. He is just 7 years old; these will be waiting for him. A letter, every week.

◆ 17 letters published · ongoing

Today's Reflection

“Everything begins somewhere small. Thirteen push-ups was where your father began.”
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№ 017

Friday, 5 June 2026

प्रिय अव्यांश, Dear Avyaansh,

The Fifty-Rupee Inheritance

“My grandfather hawked clothes from a bicycle and rolled beedis on weekends. My father left home at seventeen with fifty rupees he had arranged. I play the equity game. A letter to my son on where our money came from — and what he actually inherits.”

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№ 016

Tuesday, 19 May 2026

प्रिय अव्यांश, Dear Avyaansh,

On Happiness, and Where You Come From

“Our mind is like an ocean. Waves rise and fall. You have to hold on to the ones that give you peace.”

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№ 015

Tuesday, 28 April 2026

प्रिय अव्यांश, Dear Avyaansh,

The Wall Will Break You Before You Break It

“The wall does not move for the unprepared. It breaks you first. And the path only opens for those who stay after the breaking.”

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№ 014

Monday, 27 April 2026

प्रिय अव्यांश, Dear Avyaansh,

On Naysayers and Shortcut Sellers: A Story From Home

“A father tells his son about a Ponzi pitch in his hometown, a brokerage scam that came years later, and how to recognise the people who try to keep you small.”

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№ 013

Wednesday, 25 March 2026

प्रिय अव्यांश, Dear Avyaansh,

On Shiva: Why I Chant Har Har Mahadev Before Every Workout

“A father tells his son about his relationship with Lord Shiva — how a casual faith became an anchor, why he chants before every workout, and what spirituality truly means.”

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№ 012

Wednesday, 25 March 2026

प्रिय अव्यांश, Dear Avyaansh,

Avyaansh, The Future Belongs to Builders. Let Me Show You What That Means.

“A father writes to his son about why the future belongs to builders — not consumers, not followers, but people who look at a blank screen and create something from nothing.”

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№ 011

Monday, 23 March 2026

प्रिय अव्यांश, Dear Avyaansh,

On Legacy: Everything I'm Building Is For You

“A father tells his son the truth behind everything he is building — the platform, the investments, the letters — and why it all exists so Avyaansh never starts from zero.”

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№ 010

Tuesday, 17 March 2026

प्रिय अव्यांश, Dear Avyaansh,

On Patience: What 14 Years in Uniform Taught Me

“A father reflects on fourteen years of waiting in the Navy, the patience required for handstands and investing, and why the slow path is the only one that leads somewhere real.”

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№ 009

Sunday, 15 March 2026

प्रिय अव्यांश, Dear Avyaansh,

Avyaansh, Here Is Everything I Wish Someone Told Me About Money at 22.

“A father writes to his young son about money — the mistakes, the lessons, why compound interest rewards the early, why patience beats intelligence, and why the goal of money is freedom.”

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№ 008

Saturday, 7 March 2026

प्रिय अव्यांश, Dear Avyaansh,

On Purpose: Why I Left a Stable Career to Build

“A father tells his son the real reason he left the Indian Navy after fourteen years — not the polished version, but the truth about purpose, fear, and choosing courage over comfort.”

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№ 007

Saturday, 28 February 2026

प्रिय अव्यांश, Dear Avyaansh,

On Wealth: The Difference Between Rich and Free

“A father explains to his son the difference between being rich and being free — and why freedom, not wealth, is the goal worth chasing.”

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№ 006

Sunday, 15 February 2026

प्रिय अव्यांश, Dear Avyaansh,

Avyaansh, This Is Why I Train.

“A father writes to his young son about why he trains every single day — not for aesthetics or Instagram, but so he can be the father who shows up, plays, runs, and carries his grandchildren on his shoulders at sixty.”

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№ 005

Monday, 26 January 2026

प्रिय अव्यांश, Dear Avyaansh,

On Strength: What a Handstand Taught Me About Life

“A father tells his son about the first time he held a freestanding handstand — eight months of falling, and the twelve seconds of stillness that taught him what real strength means.”

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№ 004

Tuesday, 23 December 2025

प्रिय अव्यांश, Dear Avyaansh,

On Building: Why I Learned to Code After the Navy

“A father tells his son about learning to code from scratch at thirty-six, the fear of being behind, and why building is the deepest form of freedom.”

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№ 003

Friday, 28 November 2025

प्रिय अव्यांश, Dear Avyaansh,

On Failure: My Worst Month as a Civilian

“A father tells his son the truth about his worst month after leaving the Navy — the fear, the silence, and why that doorway led to everything good.”

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№ 002

Wednesday, 29 October 2025

प्रिय अव्यांश, Dear Avyaansh,

On Money: I Started Investing Before I Understood It

“A father tells his son about the fear of money, the first investment he made without understanding it, and why starting early matters more than starting perfectly.”

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№ 001

Monday, 29 September 2025

प्रिय अव्यांश, Dear Avyaansh,

On Discipline: The Day I Decided to Never Skip Again

“A father writes to his son about the morning that changed his relationship with discipline forever — and what skipping one day really costs.”

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— your appa,

Upendra

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